Kathy Perry lost her husband suddenly after 39 years of marriage. Following the initial shock of the tragedy, one of the things that became apparent was her new identity. She could no longer think in terms of “we” (her and her husband). She was now “me”. Kathy shares her story about that transformation. She used many tools that helped her heal and realize that we all have our own journeys in this life. Her husband had his own journey that ended when it did, regardless of any life-saving efforts or whether or not anyone else was ready. She now lives each day making a conscious effort to focus on her journey.